Tuesday, September 20, 2005

Sappy Stuff- Kathal Sevvai


Found this piece in a book that i am currently reading and thought of sharing this sappy stuff for today.....

We are all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong.

Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in someway, and seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. It isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons-your unsolvable problems-the ones that make you who you truly are-that you're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you are looking for.

You are looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the "right" wrong person- someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem i want to have."

I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.


----- Andrew Boyd
Daily Afflictions

6 comments:

Raju said...

mmm.. right or wrong, all one wants is a person to whom you can share your everythings, and around whom you feel good and comfortable. Love marriage or arranged, if the person is in some kind of 'resonance' with you, it is OK, right?

mitr_bayarea said...

yeah...as long as there is a happy medium between the two partners, then tht would suffice.

Ram.C said...

Reminded me of Visu's dialogues.. Purincha mathir irundhadhu aannaa Puriyalee.. ippo OK..

all depends on our fate & attitude to get adjusted, to sail in the life boat smoothly...

tt_giant said...

aaha.. indha group la naa ellam bachcha..

*silently slinks away*

Sundar Narayanan said...

indha postukku your significant other's comment ennavo ??

mitr_bayarea said...

ram: haha..yeah, you have to read it twice slowly in order to figure out what it being said...yes, attitude and fate go hand in hand..

ttg:hehehehehe......one day all this may come in handy..you never know:)

sundar:enga significant other ennoda blogle lam comment poda maataru......